Learn English with Modern Family | 9 Real Native Phrases You Missed · Laughandlearneng
通过《摩登家庭》片段学习9个真实英语短语，如'Keep it real'和'You know what I mean'。适合练习日常交流和俚语表达。
Phila and Claire meet Haley's boyfriend for the first time.
菲拉和克莱尔第一次见到了海莉的男朋友。
It's a classic example of a dad trying to be cool moment.
这是一个典型的例子：父亲试图表现得自己很酷（或很成熟、很有魅力）。
Phil is doing his best to sound threatening while also being friendly.
菲尔正在尽力让自己的语气听起来既具有威胁性，同时又显得友好。
And that combination is exactly what makes it so funny.
正是这种组合让整个事情变得如此有趣。
In a slang, a player or player is a man who is very successful at romantically pursuing and dating multiple people.
在俚语中，“player”指的是那些在追求异性或与多人约会方面非常成功的人。
Phil is using it in a much more generic positive way.
Phil使用这个词的方式要更为普遍、也更积极（即带有正面的含义）。
He intends it to mean something like cool guy, dude or hotshot.
他的本意是让这个词表达“很酷的人”“老兄”或“厉害的人物”之类的含义。
As for you, it's another slang term often used as a friendly greeting or to grab someone's attention.
至于你提到的那个词，它其实也是一个俚语，通常被用来表示友好的问候，或者用来吸引别人的注意。
Much like saying, hey or listen up.
这就好比在说“嘿”或者“听我说”。
Let's break down these two phrases.
我们先来分析这两个短语。
Keep it real and you know what I mean.
保持真实的态度，你明白我的意思吧。
Keep it real is a phrase that means to be authentic, honest and true to oneself.
保持真实”（Keep it real）这个短语的含义是：要真诚、诚实，并且忠于自己的本心。
Some great synonyms for it could be, be genuine, be yourself or don't pretend to be something you're not.
一些很好的同义词包括：真诚、做自己、不要假装成另一个自己。
It comes from hip hop and street culture but now everyone uses it.
它起源于嘻哈音乐和街头文化，但现在大家都在使用它。
When a dad like Phil says it to his daughter's boyfriend, he's trying to sound cool and friendly.
当像菲尔这样的父亲对女儿的男朋友说出这样的话时，他其实是想让自己听起来既酷又友好。
But there is a hidden warning in it.
但其中其实隐藏着一个警告信号。
In the context of the scene, Phil is trying to tell Haley's boyfriend to be genuine and sincere in his relationship with Haley.
在这个场景中，菲尔试图告诉海莉的男朋友，在与海莉的交往中要真诚、坦率。
You know what I mean?
你知道我的意思吧？
You know what I mean is a phrase often used to check if the listener understands what the speaker is trying to say,
你知道我的意思吧？这是一种常用的表达方式，用来确认听众是否理解了说话者的意图。
especially when the statement is ambiguous or indirect.
尤其是当该陈述含糊不清或表达方式较为间接时。
In simple terms, it means, do you understand what I'm saying or you get the idea, right?
简单来说，就是：你明白我在说什么吗？或者说，你至少理解了我的意思，对吧？
If you and I are both single by the time we're 40, we get married.
如果我们俩到 40 岁的时候还是单身，那就结婚吧。
I mean, we know each other, we like each other.
我的意思是，我们彼此认识，也彼此喜欢。
Note that it's commonly used in different forms such as, know what I mean,
需要注意的是，它通常以不同的形式被使用，比如“你明白我的意思吧”（know what I mean）。
you know what I mean.
你知道我的意思吧。
If you know what I mean.
如果你明白我的意思的话……
In this case, Phil is using it to see if Haley's boyfriend understands his message about keeping it real.
在这种情况下，菲尔使用这个工具来确认海莉的男朋友是否理解了他关于“保持真实关系”的信息。
Putting it all together, Phil is trying to say, hey, you and Haley need to have an honest genuine relationship.
综合来看，菲尔想说的是：你们俩需要建立一段真诚、坦诚的恋爱关系。
No funny business.
别搞什么花招或恶作剧。
And I'm sure you understand the hidden warning I'm giving you, right young man?
我相信你明白我在这里向你发出的这个隐含的警告，对吧，年轻人？
Maybe I should be with someone I have more in common with, you know what I mean?
也许我应该找一个和我有更多共同点的人在一起……你明白我的意思吧？
Keep it real examples.
请使用真实的例子来说明问题。
In a conversation between friends, I'm really nervous about my job interview.
在朋友们的交谈中，我对自己即将参加的工作面试感到非常紧张。
Just keep it real and be yourself, you got this.
只要保持真实，做你自己，你一定可以的。
Just keep it real and be yourself, you got this.
只要保持真实，做你自己，你一定可以的。
In a romantic relationship, I don't want to pretend to be someone I'm not in this relationship.
在一段浪漫的恋爱关系中，我不想伪装成另一个与自己不符的人。
That's okay.
没关系。
I appreciate when you keep it real with me.
我很感激你总是对我坦诚相待。
That's okay.
没关系。
I appreciate when you keep it real with me.
我很感激你对我始终保持坦诚的态度。