Carnie Wilson’s most beautiful epiphany · Big Think
Carnie Wilson分享了她成长过程中对安全感的追求，以及音乐家庭环境对她性格和生活的影响。适合练习情感表达和自我认知。
- Welcome.
- 欢迎您。
- Thank you.
- 谢谢你。
- I'm Elizabeth.
- 我叫伊丽莎白。
I'm your director today.
今天，我是你们的“导演”（即负责指挥或安排活动的人）。
- Nice to meet you.
- 很高兴见到你。
- So Carnie, this show is called "The Me I Used to Be."
- 那么，卡妮，这个节目的名字叫《曾经的自己》（The Me I Used to Be）。
- Interview take one, mark.
- 第一次面试已经完成，标记为“已完成”。
- And it is about looking back on your life, not just what happened, but how these moments shaped what you believe.
这其实是在回顾你的人生：不仅仅是回顾那些发生过的事情，更是思考这些经历是如何塑造你的信念的。
It is based on what we call your perception box, which is how you see yourself, other people,
这一理论基于我们所说的“你的认知框架”（即你如何看待自己和他人的方式）。
and the world around you.
以及你周围的世界。
- Wilson Phillips!
- 威尔逊·菲利普斯！
- Ah, I love you, Nelson.
啊，我爱你，纳尔逊。
- So, as you look back on these photos and videos.
那么，当你回顾这些照片和视频时……
- Whoa.
- 哇哦……
- We want your honest take on how you felt back then, how you perceived yourself in the world,
我们希望你能诚实地分享你当时的感受，以及你如何看待自己在这个世界中的位置。
and how you feel looking back on it now.
以及你现在回过头来看这件事时的感受是怎样的。
- Wow, that is insane.
- 哇，太不可思议了。
- Yeah.
- 是的。
It's coming up for you.
它马上就会出现在你面前了。
- Woo!
- 哇！
- A lot, it seems like.
- 看起来确实很多。
- Yeah.
- 是的。
It's just like, I don't know, it's a lot to take in.
就是……怎么说呢，这些信息实在太多，让人难以一下子消化（或理解）。
That's a lot to take in.
这些信息实在太多，难以一下子全部消化。
Seeing my family together, the core four, I would call it, it's so limited to see those pictures.
看到我的家人（也就是我所说的“核心四人组”）聚在一起，却只能通过照片来记录这些时刻，实在让人感到非常遗憾（或者说：通过照片来了解他们的相聚情景实在是非常有限的）。
There's not a lot of the four of us -- of my mom, my dad, and Wendy and I.
我们四个人的相处时光其实并不多——我的妈妈、我的爸爸，还有温迪和我。
Well, I grew up in Bel Air, California.
我在加利福尼亚州的贝尔艾尔市长大的。
My father is Brian Wilson from The Beach Boys.
我的父亲是来自“The Beach Boys”乐队的布莱恩·威尔逊（Brian Wilson）。
What was always happening was just music.
一直以来发生的事情，其实就是音乐而已。
Whether it something was on the stereo or piano was playing.
无论是音响里播放的音乐，还是钢琴演奏的曲子，总之总有什么声音在空气中回荡。
I mean, I have memories of sitting at the piano with my dad, him teaching me and playing for him.
我的意思是，我记得自己曾和爸爸一起坐在钢琴前，他教我弹琴，同时也会为我演奏。
But it wasn't a typical household.
但这并不是一个典型的普通家庭。
I mean, there were some crazy things that happened.
我的意思是，确实发生了一些非常离奇的事情。
Everybody would come over the house all the time.
大家都经常来我们家做客。
It was singers, mostly musicians.
他们大多是歌手，同时也是一些音乐家。
Elton John would come over, play the piano.
埃尔顿·约翰会过来弹钢琴。
Paul McCartney came over with his kids and Sean Cassidy came over and we got a picture of it and my cheeks are bright red.
保罗·麦卡特尼带着他的孩子们来了，肖恩·卡西迪也来了，我们拍了一张合影。我的脸颊涨得通红。
There he is.
他就在那儿。
But we didn't know who was gonna show up.
但我们不知道最终会来哪些人。
It's like that rock'n'roll lifestyle.
就像那种摇滚乐所代表的生活方式一样。