Talk To Strangers. It Will Change Your Life. · Sprouht
学习如何与陌生人交谈，克服社交恐惧，提升沟通能力。适合练习社交技巧和自信表达。
Hey, how's it going?
嘿，最近怎么样？
Learning how to talk to strangers is one of the most fundamentally important skills that you can learn in your lifetime.
学会如何与陌生人交谈，是你一生中可以掌握的最基本、最重要的技能之一。
No matter how old or young you are.
无论你年纪多大或多大。
Here's the problem though.
不过，问题就在这里。
Talking to strangers, fundamentally is a very
与陌生人交谈，从本质上来说，是一件非常……（原句未完整表达具体含义）。
difficult thing to do because it requires you to put your ego in your pocket and allow yourself to potentially get rejected.
这是一件很难做到的事情，因为这需要你放下自己的自尊心，同时也要接受自己可能会被拒绝的可能性。
Social anxiety has prevented me from asking out a lot of girls that I thought were cute, walking up to people who seemed interesting,
社交焦虑让我无法主动约那些我觉得很可爱的女孩，也无法去接近那些看起来很有趣的人。
and honestly putting myself out there more.
说实话，我现在更加愿意主动展示自己（即更加愿意公开自己的想法、经历等）。
It even took me a long time
这甚至花了我很长时间才完成。
to start my YouTube channel because I
我想开始我的 YouTube 频道……
was afraid to put my face onto this camera and potentially find out what my friends really thought of me.
我害怕把脸凑到这个摄像头前，因为那样可能会知道朋友们对我的真实看法。
Now, I know that a lot of us have that same problem.
现在，我知道我们很多人都面临着同样的问题。
So in this video, I'm going to be teaching you how to talk to strangers, how to move past that fear of rejection,
在这段视频中，我将教你如何与陌生人交流，以及如何克服对被拒绝的恐惧。
and learn how to put yourself out there and open up every single door.
学会如何主动出击、勇于尝试，从而打开每一扇机会之门。
Before I teach you how to talk to strangers, I think it's best I show you how not to talk to strangers.
在我教你如何与陌生人交谈之前，我觉得最好先告诉你应该如何避免与陌生人交谈。
Can I ask you a quick question?
我可以问你一个简单的问题吗？
Can I continue the conversation for you with your friend?
我可以继续帮你与你的朋友进行对话吗？
Just take over the phone.
直接拿起电话就行了。
Do you want to...
你想……吗？
Yeah?
是啊？
Yeah?
是啊？
Don't say who it is though.
不过，别告诉我那个人是谁。
Sorry.
对不起。
Of course quick question.
当然，这只是一个简单的问题。
What are you listening to?
你在听什么音乐？
Podcasts.
播客。
Oh cool.
哦，真酷。
Can I listen?
我可以听听吗？
Cool.
酷。
Hi.
嗨。
I'm just a random stranger, but I wanted to say hi.
我只是一个普通的陌生人，不过还是想跟你说声你好。
I wasn't speaking English.
我当时并没有说英语。
What language is Spanish?
西班牙语属于哪种语言？
It's Spanish.
这是西班牙语。
No, I'm not speaking Spanish.
不，我不会说西班牙语。
Damn.
该死。
Is your name John?
你的名字是约翰吗？
Why jazz?
为什么选择爵士乐呢？
I thought I recognized you from CJ.
我以为在 CJ 的时候见过你。
I can know.
我可以知道。