The Real Reason You Freeze In English - And It’s Fixable · Speak English With Tiffani
揭秘英语卡壳的真正原因,不是害羞或语法问题,而是大脑缺乏结构。适合练习口语流利度和思维组织能力。
Freezing in English is not a personality problem.
在英语学习过程中遇到困难(比如单词记不住、语法搞不懂等)并不是个人的性格问题。
It's not shyness.
这并不是因为害羞。
It's not nerves.
这不是因为紧张(或害怕)造成的。
It's not something you were born with and have to live with.
这并不是你与生俱来、就必须一直忍受的东西。
It's a missing piece and once you see it, you can't unsee it.
那是一块“缺失的碎片”;一旦你看到了它,就再也无法忽视它的存在了。
Here's the part nobody tells you.
以下是没人会告诉你的事情。
The fix isn't more studying.
解决问题的办法并不是更加努力学习。
It's not more vocabulary.
这并不是需要学习更多的词汇。
It's not another year of grammar.
今年我们不会再学习语法了。
It's one thing.
这是一回事。
One thing that native speakers use every single day without even realizing it and once it's in your head,
有一件事,母语者每天都在不自觉地使用;一旦你明白了这一点,……
your brain always knows what comes next.
你的大脑总是能预知接下来会发生什么。
That's what I'm giving you today.
这就是我今天要告诉你们的内容。
Are you ready?
你准备好了吗?
Well then, let's jump right in.
那么,我们就直接开始吧。
Section one, the freeze.
第一部分:冻结措施。
I, I want us to name the moment.
我……我希望我们能够给这个特别的时刻起一个名字。
Someone asks you a question in English, your mouth opens and nothing comes out.
有人用英语向你提问,你的嘴巴张开了,却什么也说不出来。
Not the wrong word, not a small mistake, nothing.
这并不是一个用词不当的错误,也不是一个微不足道的失误……什么都不是。
Half a second passes, then another and you can feel it.
半秒钟过去了,接着又是半秒钟……你终于感觉到了那种变化(或:那种情绪、感觉等)。
That pause is getting louder.
那个“停顿”的声音越来越明显(或者说:这个停顿所造成的影响/后果越来越严重)。
Your heart is beating.
你的心在跳动。
You can feel the silence.
你可以感受到那种寂静。
What does it feel like from the inside for you?
从你的内心角度来看,这种感觉是怎样的?
Your face gets warm.
你的脸会变红(也就是变暖和)。
You hear yourself say, "Um," while your brain runs somewhere else.
你会听到自己说出“嗯”这样的声音,而此时你的大脑其实正在思考完全不同的事情。
You know this.
你知道这件事的。
You've studied this.
你已经学习过这个内容了。
You've read this.
你已经读过这个内容了。
You've written it.
是你写的。
You've passed tests on this and right now, in front of one person, you can't say it.
你已经通过了相关测试,但此刻,在这个人面前,你却无法把心里的话说出来。
What does this now look like from the outside?
从外部看,现在这个东西是什么样子的呢?
You answer in one sentence and stop, not because you've finished, but because you ran out of words to say.
你用一句话回答,然后就停止了。这并不是因为你已经说完了所有想说的话,而是因为你实在找不到更多的词汇来表达了。
You say the same idea twice in different words trying to buy time, right?
你用不同的词语重复同一个观点,其实是为了争取时间,对吧?
You end with, "Yes, so yeah."
你最后说了:“是的,就是这样。
You give the short answer instead of
你应该给出简短的回答,而不是……
the true answer because the short one ends faster or you say nothing at all and let someone else fill the space.
真正的答案是:应该选择简短的回答方式,因为简短的回答能更快地结束对话;或者干脆什么都不说,让别人来填补谈话的空缺。
This is the part though that hurts the most.
不过,正是这部分内容最让人感到痛苦(或:最令人难以接受)。
You walk away.
你转身离开了。
10 seconds later, 30 seconds later, the answer arrives.
10秒后,30秒后,答案终于出现了。