Small Talk Tip - How To Introduce Yourself To Someone New! · mmmEnglish
教你用四步法自信地用英语向新认识的人介绍自己,适用于邻里、职场和学校等场景。适合练习自我介绍和日常英语对话。
This is my best small talk tip, how to introduce yourself to someone new.
这是我关于如何进行轻松交谈的最佳建议——也就是如何向陌生人介绍自己。
Right now I'm going to teach you my four-step method to make introducing yourself to someone in English easy and enjoyable.
现在,我将教你们我的四步法,帮助你们用英语轻松且愉快地向他人介绍自己。
You can use these steps to introduce yourself at work, to a neighbour, at a bar, at the dog park,
你可以按照这些步骤来在工作场合、向邻居、在酒吧或狗狗公园中介绍自己。
anywhere and the best part is it's short, it's fast, it's easy to remember so you can start practising your introduction today.
无论在哪里都可以使用这个方法;最棒的是,它非常简短、使用起来很快,而且容易记住。因此,你今天就可以开始练习如何进行自我介绍了。
I'm Emma from mmmEnglish and I help English learners around the world to speak English confidently.
我是艾玛(Emma),来自“mmmEnglish”组织。我的职责是帮助世界各地的英语学习者能够更加自信地使用英语进行交流。
I'm also the co-founder of Hey Lady!, an English-speaking community for women to develop confidence and fluency as English speakers.
我同时也是 “Hey Lady!” 这个英语社区的联合创始人。该社区专为女性打造,旨在帮助她们提升英语自信心和表达能力。
You can find me on all my socials, all the links are down in the description.
你可以在我的所有社交媒体平台上找到我;所有相关链接都列在描述部分下方。
But right now, let's dive into my four-step process to help you introduce yourself to anyone.
不过现在,让我们来看看我提出的四步流程,这个流程能帮助你向任何人介绍自己。
Okay I'm so excited to share my method to introduce yourself in English because it's simple and it's easy to remember.
好的,我非常兴奋能够分享我的方法,教大家如何用英语进行自我介绍——因为这个方法很简单,也很容易记住。
We can get so worried and so nervous about meeting new people.
我们可能会因为结识新朋友而感到非常担心和紧张。
Perhaps you worry about making a mistake in English, perhaps you don't quite know what to say
也许你担心在用英语表达时会犯错,也许你还不太清楚该说些什么。
or you worry about running out of things to say once you start.
又或者,你会担心一旦开始说话,就会发现自己无话可说。
Maybe you're an introvert and you really have to force yourself to meet new people.
也许你是个内向的人,真的需要强迫自己去结识新朋友。
Is that you?
那是你吗?
What makes you nervous about meeting someone new in English?
是什么让你对用英语结识新朋友感到紧张呢?
Let me know down in the comments.
请在评论区告诉我你的想法。
So let's get started with those four steps to introduce yourself.
那么,让我们开始按照这四个步骤来介绍自己吧。
Step one: Find an interesting point that connects you to this person in that moment.
第一步:找出一个在那一刻能够将你与这个人联系起来的有趣点。
Step two: Introduce yourself, tell them your name.
第二步:自我介绍,告诉他们你的名字。
Step three: Engage with a relevant question about the context or the topic that you mentioned in step one.
第三步:针对你在第一步中提到的背景或主题,提出一个相关的问题来进行讨论。
Step four: Give good vibes and move on.
第四步:传递积极的能量,然后继续前行。
All of this should be over in two or three minutes.
所有这些事情应该在两到三分钟内就完成。
We worry about starting conversations but the reality is that
我们担心如何开启对话,但实际情况却是……
most first-time meetings are really brief and they are the opportunities that we have to find connections,
大多数初次会面其实都很简短,而正是这些机会让我们能够建立起彼此之间的联系。
connections that you can use later on when you see that person again next time.
这些联系方式可以在你下次再次见到那个人时派上用场。
So don't think about this first conversation as being a huge commitment.
所以,不要把这次初次谈话视为一种需要承担重大责任的承诺。
It's brief, it's fast and you've got to hit some key points.
内容简短、表达迅速,你必须重点阐述一些关键内容。
So I'm going to break down each of those steps now but to do that, I'm going to share three different scenarios.
那么,我现在将逐一解释这些步骤;为此,我会分享三个不同的场景作为例子。
Meeting your neighbour, you've just moved into a new house.
你刚搬进一所新房子,正在和邻居见面。
At the office, you've been working there for a few months now but you see someone that you haven't met yet in the staff kitchen.
在办公室里,你已经工作了几个月了;不过在员工食堂里,你看到了一个之前从未见过的人。
When you're dropping your kids off at school and you see some of the other parents chatting outside the classroom.
当你送孩子们去学校时,会看到其他一些家长在教室外面聊天。
At each step, we'll talk about these three different scenarios so that you can see how my method applies in each of these different contexts
在每一步中,我们都会讨论这三种不同的情况,以便你能了解我的方法是如何在这些不同场景中应用的。
and I'll give you some examples.
我来举一些例子。
Step one, find an interesting point that connects you to this person in that moment.
第一步:找出一个有趣的点,这个点能让你在那一刻与这个人产生共鸣(或者说,能体现出你们之间的某种联系)。
It's a beautiful day, isn't it?
今天真是美好的一天,不是吗?
The weather is a perfect topic because most likely, you'll be outside when you're meeting your neighbour.
天气是一个非常适合聊的话题,因为当你去拜访邻居时,很可能会待在户外。
That smells good!
那闻起来真香!
What have you got for lunch?
你午餐吃了什么?
Usually, you run into people in places like the staff kitchen so we're using the context to start our conversation.
通常,你会在员工厨房之类的地方遇到其他人,因此我们会利用这些情境来开启对话。
Don't forget your lunchbox, Ted!
别忘了带上你的午餐盒,泰德!